5 Better is an open reprimand [of loving correction] than love that is hidden. 6 Faithful are the wounds of a friend [who corrects out of love and concern], But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful [because they serve his hidden agenda].
Proverbs 27:5-6 (Amplified)
Discussion Questions:
- How can we cultivate humility to recognize our blind spots—especially when they harm our relationships? Why do covenant relationships (with God, our spouse, and close friends) play a crucial role in speaking uncomfortable but necessary truth into our lives? What practical steps can we take to accept correction and actively pursue growth where it’s needed? (2 Timothy 3:16-17; John 15:14-16; Malachi 2:14)
- Describe what blind spots are and what can happen if we don’t pay attention to them in our lives. What are some common blind spots in work or personal life that people often overlook, sometimes leading to negative consequences? What kind of healthy and positive mindset can we develop to confront these areas? (James 1:22-25; Galatians 6:7-8)
- How can we identify and address unconscious biases or ingrained thought patterns that may be hindering our spiritual growth and relationships? Why is it crucial to align our core motivations with God’s kingdom rather than seeking human approval or validation? And what practical steps can we take—through prayer, humility, and accountability—to bridge the gap between how we perceive ourselves and how others experience us, ensuring our lives reflect Christ-like grace and truth? (Matthew 9:17; Matthew 6:33; Colossians 4:6; Luke 14:8-11)
Sermon Summary
This week’s sermon explored the critical yet often overlooked topic of blind spots in our lives—those unconscious behaviors, biases, and emotional triggers that hinder our relationships and spiritual growth. Using the Johari Window model, we examined how others may perceive flaws we cannot see in ourselves, emphasizing the need for humility and openness to loving correction. God uses covenant relationships—with Him, our spouse, and trusted friends—to reveal areas needing change. Whether it’s pride, unresolved pain, or misplaced motivations, unaddressed blind spots lead to broken connections and missed blessings. Yet, through God’s Word and the Holy Spirit’s guidance, we can confront these weaknesses, renew our minds, and walk in freedom. Let us welcome pruning, for it yields the fruit of Christlike character and deeper fellowship with others.