Words to Value
Everyone likes to have like-minded friends who are reassuring of their thoughts and actions. Unfortunately, you can do yourself a disservice by not also surrounding yourself with people who challenge your perspective. We all need help and accountability as we follow Jesus and live godly lives. When you’re beginning to stray from God’s will, it’s wise friends who you should be able to count on to help you find your way back.
Ecclesiastes 7:5
It is better to heed the rebuke of a wise person than to listen to the song of fools.
Constructive criticism is rarely enjoyable, but it’s often transformative. Surround yourself with wise, mature followers of Christ then give them the opportunity to speak into your life. Ask a leader in your youth group for advice or accountability, then accept their loving rebukes.
Prayer Prompt: God, please help me to identify someone in my life who I can rely on to hold me accountable. Please help me to open up to them and allow their godly insight to influence my life for you.